Diana Paradise

May 28, 2026

Is age really just a number?

By Diana Paradise

Older men bring a lot of benefits that their younger counterparts lack: money, careers, sexual experience and interesting stories. Most importantly, they frequently feel so blessed to be in your presence that you can do ...

May 21, 2026

Sexy? Or blackmail bait? Isla Vistans on: Sex tapes

By Diana Paradise

Sex tapes, nudes, cybersex — all things in which many of us have engaged, or at least been asked to. Maybe you’re in a long-term relationship and you miss each other. Maybe you realized your porn habits are unethical...

May 14, 2026

The grass is always greener: Feeling lonely when single, and trapped when coupled

By Diana Paradise

“I’ve been craving freedom,” my taken friend told me over an overpriced Cajé smoothie the other day. I was surprised to hear this, considering her relationship seems somewhat ideal. How could someone with a loving...

May 7, 2026

Hedonism, humiliation, Hinge: How dating apps have ruined connections

By Diana Paradise

Match.com, eharmony, OkCupid, Bumble, Tinder and now, the fan-favorite, Hinge. These offer the exact opposite of the experience that I had with Dublin’s guy: People present the most curated and likable versions of them...

April 30, 2026

How to have California King-level sex on a Twin XL

By Diana Paradise

Any true lover of sex knows that the location matters not. The bed, the couch, the ZBT bathroom — the world truly is your oyster (or your clam, I should say). 

April 23, 2026

Making your porn history public? The problems with men’s Instagram “following” list

By Diana Paradise

It has become almost a rite of passage in any talking stage to do the dreaded stalk: who your current infatuation is following on Instagram. After many failed talking stages and first dates, I feel as if I’ve seen it a...

April 16, 2026

Empowering or desperate? Isla Vistans on: women approaching men

By Diana Paradise

“Holy shit, you’re bold!” my friend proclaimed after I told her about one of my recent escapades. I had been imbibing at a local bar for a few hours and enjoying the view of a particularly attractive employee. Tap...

April 9, 2026

A condom is worth 1,000 words: What a man’s preferred rubber says about him

By Diana Paradise

Condoms: they come in all shapes, sizes, colors, textures and flavors. Pre-lubricated, ribbed, banana-flavored, extra long — most importantly, they are necessary to any sexual activity involving a penis.

February 26, 2026

“Body count”: Relic of purity culture or necessary warning?

By Diana Paradise

At the risk of sounding cliché, this story begins at a Parisian café, where I sat with a man over a bottle of white and a pack of cigarettes. Our second date was going quite well until the dreaded topic arose: sexual p...

February 12, 2026

How to: Valentine’s Day for couples and singles alike

By Diana Paradise

This year’s Valentine’s Day will be the first time I am passing the holiday truly single since 2019 (yikes)! Throughout my long-term relationships, flings and situationships, I have had my fair share of Valentine’s...

January 29, 2026

Is I.V. too small for dating? How to have a sex life when everyone is connected

By Diana Paradise

It seems like you can’t suck a single dick in this town without finding out that said dick belongs to your freshman year roommate’s lab partner’s sorority big’s ex-situationship who committed some heinous offense...